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Hello I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious. So I've been dating and my parents are aware. But recently after I said I want to go on a trip with my boyfriend, my parents have all sorts of opinions about it. And all their traditional beliefs that I did not know existed are now on the surface and they are kinda forcing me to follow it. For say they think "bad types of woman" go on trips with their boyfriends and I need to save myself. They have been guilt tripping me and I feel very confused. I have. It's been a long stressful month of discussion. The problem is I don't share their beliefs, and I haven't been really "saving myself". I'm been living away from them for collage quite a while and I've been basically doing stuff that if they found out they would be very upset about. But I didn't think it bothers them because they never shared any of this. And they said if I go on this trip I'm disrespecting them and the entire family. But his parents are totally cool and don't seem to mind. I'm 26 And I see what you're saying. It's really hard breaking free because they always monitored me my entire life. I never had a voice for myself. They basically bullied and forced me to do what they wanted. BTW if you didn't guess I'm their favorite child. Should I tell them everything I did that goes against what they believe? So they know that I don't share their beliefs ? I guess worst case I won't talk to them for a while : ) Thank you , that helped.

Have a good one!

You too

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.

So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can.

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.

Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.

Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.

Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.

I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.

I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone

What sort of thing do you want to go into when your studies are over?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone

I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker

That is a really worth profession. Have you thought of doing some volunteer work before you graduate?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker

Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer

That is an awesome thing to do though it could be very mentally draining. Do you feel up to it?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer

I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school

Don't put yourself under too much pressure if you are suffering yourself.

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school

I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first

I think a lot of people who work helping other people have that sort of problem - it's too easy to neglect yourself.

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first

It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way

Is there anything else you'd like to tell me about how you're feeling right now?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way

I got a job offer today, I'm very proud of myself!

That sounds wonderful - is it the sort of job you were really looking for?

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way I got a job offer today, I'm very proud of myself!

Sort of. It's an opportunity to work for one of my favorite professors over the summer. I'm still going to work on that suicide hotline job as well

Don't over extend yourself though. Make sure to give yourself plenty of you time.

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way I got a job offer today, I'm very proud of myself! Sort of. It's an opportunity to work for one of my favorite professors over the summer. I'm still going to work on that suicide hotline job as well

That's a good point. I struggle with that.

Maybe set aside a few hours each week where you do something just for you, even if someone else claims that they need you.

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I have a very stressful meeting tomorrow morning. I'm feeling nervous and anxious about it.

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Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school. Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study. Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family. I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way I got a job offer today, I'm very proud of myself! Sort of. It's an opportunity to work for one of my favorite professors over the summer. I'm still going to work on that suicide hotline job as well That's a good point. I struggle with that.

I will try that! Okay, thank you so much for your advice. I'm going to log off now. This has been very helpful.

Wait till we hit the fifteen minute mark :D. And you're most welcome, have a lovely day!

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back

What are your thoughts on the relationship?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back

my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games

That does sound hard that he is giving mixed signals.

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games

yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go

Do you think he took your friend's comments seriously?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go

yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more

It sounds like your friend got him thinking.

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more

it seemed like it did

Do you feel his change is genuine?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did

to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too.

What would he have to do to prove himself?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too.

say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me

It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct?

It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct? It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too. say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me

yes that would be nice. he tends to beat around the bush then lets me know

Have you talked to anyone else besides your friend about your concerns? Do you think your family or other friends could give some additional support to you?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too. say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me yes that would be nice. he tends to beat around the bush then lets me know

yes i've talked to them about it. they've given me some insight into it. i know they want me to be careful. they don't want me to be hurt

That's understandable that they want you to be careful. My parents and friends watched out for me too.

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too. say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me yes that would be nice. he tends to beat around the bush then lets me know yes i've talked to them about it. they've given me some insight into it. i know they want me to be careful. they don't want me to be hurt

we are lucky they look out for us. they can't all be wrong if they're guiding us a certain way

I think you hit the nail on the head that it's helpful to have that support.

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too. say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me yes that would be nice. he tends to beat around the bush then lets me know yes i've talked to them about it. they've given me some insight into it. i know they want me to be careful. they don't want me to be hurt we are lucky they look out for us. they can't all be wrong if they're guiding us a certain way

absolutely. i appreciate your help! nity nite

Thanks. Can I assist you with anything else?

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My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.

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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more it seemed like it did to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too. say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me yes that would be nice. he tends to beat around the bush then lets me know yes i've talked to them about it. they've given me some insight into it. i know they want me to be careful. they don't want me to be hurt we are lucky they look out for us. they can't all be wrong if they're guiding us a certain way absolutely. i appreciate your help! nity nite

nope. im good

Have a good night.

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down

I understand. During these times, it is very stressful.

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down

my stress very high

Whenever I am stressed, I like to go for a walk and listen to music. It helps take me away and reflect for a while.

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high

OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges

Music is a great stress relief! Excercise is great too, for releasing those happy endorphins! Both music and exercise really help me deal with my stress levels!

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges

ok

You are having stress in your family as well?

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok

what type of music

Personally, I enjoy hip hop/ rap or anything upbeat. It puts me in a great mood and makes me feel strong.

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok what type of music

my stress level very high in some time

I understand. Trying some options to work through stress can be very helpful for you.

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok what type of music my stress level very high in some time

ooh try in some option work

Yes, we all have stress. Learning to deal with it is the key!

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok what type of music my stress level very high in some time ooh try in some option work

my children carrying important another work choice some late

You have children? How many?

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok what type of music my stress level very high in some time ooh try in some option work my children carrying important another work choice some late

two

They are a blessing!

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok what type of music my stress level very high in some time ooh try in some option work my children carrying important another work choice some late two

Thank you

Absolutely!

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my working place is lot of problems in daily. daily any problem created. my family daily activities is sadness my family happy is down my stress very high OK I listen the music daily my stress very high my body and my mind very tired my family happiness daily challenges ok what type of music my stress level very high in some time ooh try in some option work my children carrying important another work choice some late two Thank you

stress level decreasing any doctor consults other than yoga any other idea

Doctors can help by prescribing medicine for stress, if you feel like nothing is helping. I have suffered with anxiety for years. It was affecting my blood pressure and I finally had to go to a doctor for anxiety medicine. It has helped me. I still exercise though. It makes me feel great! I enjoy dance fitness!

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feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town

I understand how frustrating it can be, especially with COVID turning our world upside down!

I understand how frustrating it can be, especially with COVID turning our world upside down! May I please know what field you are in?

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feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town

yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time.

First fall, I tip my hat to you! It is because of people like you, our frontline heroes, that we are at least able to put some fight up against the corona demon!

First fall, I tip my hat to you! It is because of people like you, our frontline heroes, that we are at least able to put some fight up against the corona demon! I hope you heard that major pharma companies have tested vaccines which are 90-95 % effective! Given the current advancement in technology, it is a great news.

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2

5

feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time.

thank you for that. i just wish i either had more hours or made more at a time. working part time just isnt cutting it. it is good that they are making progress on the vaccines. i just question their testing and how they are doing it.

I understand. Part time or reduced hours can be a source of concern.

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4

2

5

feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time. thank you for that. i just wish i either had more hours or made more at a time. working part time just isnt cutting it. it is good that they are making progress on the vaccines. i just question their testing and how they are doing it.

and i desperately need to move out of the situation that i am in. but cant do it with my current level of income.

We just need to trust them to bring the vaccine to the public. I hope in due time they will publish their detailed research and development papers.

We just need to trust them to bring the vaccine to the public. I hope in due time they will publish their detailed research and development papers. Regarding your situation, have you tried a secondary source of income? Like becoming a delivery driver or an order taker?

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4

2

5

feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time. thank you for that. i just wish i either had more hours or made more at a time. working part time just isnt cutting it. it is good that they are making progress on the vaccines. i just question their testing and how they are doing it. and i desperately need to move out of the situation that i am in. but cant do it with my current level of income.

in the town where i live there are no services like uber eats or door dash. i have been looking for work from home jobs right and left

Ok. I suppose you can try online jobs. One of my friends lives outside the city and is a part time online order taker for Pizza Hut.

Ok. I suppose you can try online jobs. One of my friends lives outside the city and is a part time online order taker for Pizza Hut. All you need is phone and internet. You will need to take customer's orders and input it in Pizza Hut's order system. is this something you can explore doing?

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2

5

feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time. thank you for that. i just wish i either had more hours or made more at a time. working part time just isnt cutting it. it is good that they are making progress on the vaccines. i just question their testing and how they are doing it. and i desperately need to move out of the situation that i am in. but cant do it with my current level of income. in the town where i live there are no services like uber eats or door dash. i have been looking for work from home jobs right and left

online order taker? how do you sign up for that?

Great! You can search for "Pizza Hut online order taking job". The first result will lead you to the company that manages these jobs.

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4

2

5

feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time. thank you for that. i just wish i either had more hours or made more at a time. working part time just isnt cutting it. it is good that they are making progress on the vaccines. i just question their testing and how they are doing it. and i desperately need to move out of the situation that i am in. but cant do it with my current level of income. in the town where i live there are no services like uber eats or door dash. i have been looking for work from home jobs right and left online order taker? how do you sign up for that?

highly possible, have a phone and a high speed internet connection.

Once you complete training, the pay is good especially during weekends, where peak load hits.

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2

5

feeling really stressed out and exhausted trying to find a job in a small town yea that has really put a damper on a lot of my job searches. currently im in the medical field. i serve as an in home health care provider. but that is only part time. thank you for that. i just wish i either had more hours or made more at a time. working part time just isnt cutting it. it is good that they are making progress on the vaccines. i just question their testing and how they are doing it. and i desperately need to move out of the situation that i am in. but cant do it with my current level of income. in the town where i live there are no services like uber eats or door dash. i have been looking for work from home jobs right and left online order taker? how do you sign up for that? highly possible, have a phone and a high speed internet connection.

thank you. i had not even heard of this. i will apply in a min when we are done talking. i apprecieate it.

I am glad I could be of help. I wish you all the best!

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Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation.

Would you like to give me a few more details?

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

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2

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Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation.

So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting.

Well, are you sure that he could have definitely afforded to loan you anything?

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting.

Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged.

Well, the thing is, just because you had lent to him does not mean he is obliged to help you

Well, the thing is, just because you had lent to him does not mean he is obliged to help you Though of course it would have been the courteous thing to do

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged.

Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words.

Is it possible to try to talk to him calmly and tell him exactly how he has made you feel?

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words.

Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay.

I think you need to decide whether you just just let it go or whether you cant' and won't be able to continue the friendship

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay.

However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment.

Aren't you worried that it might rankle with you and surface again at some time to affect the friendship?

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay. However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment.

My behavior with him will not be affected because of this. But whenever I happen to think or recall of this I get to anger of it unavoidably. And cools off in some time.

It is understandable. I hope that I have been able to help you a little and thank you for talking it out!

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay. However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment. My behavior with him will not be affected because of this. But whenever I happen to think or recall of this I get to anger of it unavoidably. And cools off in some time.

I need some more to chat with you. Is there any suggestion not to get angered again, even when having some recall or thought of the situation. That has been my problem.

Have you thought of trying any meditation exercises or breathing exercises... just to help you stay calm?

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay. However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment. My behavior with him will not be affected because of this. But whenever I happen to think or recall of this I get to anger of it unavoidably. And cools off in some time. I need some more to chat with you. Is there any suggestion not to get angered again, even when having some recall or thought of the situation. That has been my problem.

Generally I am cool, not an emotional person. If I need any special training, it should be only because of this. If there is some simple way that could help.

I think you should give it a try - I have personally found breathing exercises very helpful! Thank you for talking, I must go now.

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Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay. However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment. My behavior with him will not be affected because of this. But whenever I happen to think or recall of this I get to anger of it unavoidably. And cools off in some time. I need some more to chat with you. Is there any suggestion not to get angered again, even when having some recall or thought of the situation. That has been my problem. Generally I am cool, not an emotional person. If I need any special training, it should be only because of this. If there is some simple way that could help.

However it is not at all required. That anger does not affect me, just only feeling for some minutes. I let it go.

can you press quit and do the survey? It has to be done your end:) We've done ten turns each.

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I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay. However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment. My behavior with him will not be affected because of this. But whenever I happen to think or recall of this I get to anger of it unavoidably. And cools off in some time. I need some more to chat with you. Is there any suggestion not to get angered again, even when having some recall or thought of the situation. That has been my problem. Generally I am cool, not an emotional person. If I need any special training, it should be only because of this. If there is some simple way that could help. However it is not at all required. That anger does not affect me, just only feeling for some minutes. I let it go.

I think you suggest to try for breathing exercise. Do you feel benefited by that, often or rarely.

Yes I do but the task really is finished. Please press quit, I can't do it my end. Neither of us will get paid if you do not. Ten turns each and fifteen minutes .. we've done that.

Providing Suggestions

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problems_with_friends

I am in a critical situation in need of money, urgently for my business. I was sure my friend will help me. To my surprise, he has refused, in spite of my help to him previously when he was in a similar situation.

4

2

4

5

Today there is nothing to feel about that. When I think of it or have some situation to recall the previous incident I get very angered on my friend, who did not help me, in spite of my volunteer help to him on a similar situation. So simple. I was in need of money, urgently, for my business. I helped him when he was in a similar situation. Now I am in situation, previously he was when I helped. I expected my friend surely will help. But he did not. This has put me some anger on him. This was a situation that happened 1 year before. Now I recall this for chatting. Yes. That was well within his limits and he should have obliged. Thank you for your understanding and feeling. I feel some relax over the anger, just by your words. Yes. I tried calmly of the situation. He told accepting as the situation has passed. I am not sure he has fully understood. As the situation passed, he says okay. However I continue the friendship not affected by this harassment. My behavior with him will not be affected because of this. But whenever I happen to think or recall of this I get to anger of it unavoidably. And cools off in some time. I need some more to chat with you. Is there any suggestion not to get angered again, even when having some recall or thought of the situation. That has been my problem. Generally I am cool, not an emotional person. If I need any special training, it should be only because of this. If there is some simple way that could help. However it is not at all required. That anger does not affect me, just only feeling for some minutes. I let it go. I think you suggest to try for breathing exercise. Do you feel benefited by that, often or rarely.

If you are urgent, I do not want to delay you . Thanks, Bye.

bye!

bye! you have to press quit. It does not work from this end. Please press quit or neither of us gets paid. This has already taken twice as long as it should have. Please press quit.

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CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious

Hi, I am very sorry to hear that.

Hi, I am very sorry to hear that. What it is you are feeling anxious about?

Others, Question

Others

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CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious

CoVid and my job leave me worried every day

So you are feeling anxious about losing your job due to COVID, just to clarify.

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fear

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anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day

Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated

Just from the few messages we have exchanged I can tell this is making you very anxious.

Just from the few messages we have exchanged I can tell this is making you very anxious. Have there been any lay off's at your job due to COVID?

Reflection of feelings, Question

Reflection of feelings

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anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated

It is making me anxious. There have been some layoffs in other departments. And, some people who decided to go in the office a few days have gotten CoVid.

I completely understand that feeling, as I was also very worried about my job when the pandemic started,

I completely understand that feeling, as I was also very worried about my job when the pandemic started, Have you spoken with your manager about this? It might help to get some clarification from your manager about your job security?

Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions

Self-disclosure

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47

5

anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated It is making me anxious. There have been some layoffs in other departments. And, some people who decided to go in the office a few days have gotten CoVid.

That is a good suggestion. I have actually been worried about the answer I would get or that I would get no real answer at all. the truth right now is scary

I understand being worried about that, but I definitely think getting some clarity would help you out in the long run.

Providing Suggestions

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fear

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6

anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated It is making me anxious. There have been some layoffs in other departments. And, some people who decided to go in the office a few days have gotten CoVid. That is a good suggestion. I have actually been worried about the answer I would get or that I would get no real answer at all. the truth right now is scary

I may try that this week. I feel a bit better, but how long can this go on? So many people have lost jobs and are sick or dying. Two people in my building have died. I think about lying in the hospital alone, no job, dying.

From the news I have seen the vaccine is coming soon and that is supposed to be very helpful to help get back to normal.

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anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated It is making me anxious. There have been some layoffs in other departments. And, some people who decided to go in the office a few days have gotten CoVid. That is a good suggestion. I have actually been worried about the answer I would get or that I would get no real answer at all. the truth right now is scary I may try that this week. I feel a bit better, but how long can this go on? So many people have lost jobs and are sick or dying. Two people in my building have died. I think about lying in the hospital alone, no job, dying.

I hope that is true. I miss my workmates. They are good friends. We all want to see each other again and have our jobs.

I know it is a super tough time, but I know you can make it through it!

Affirmation and Reassurance

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47

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anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated It is making me anxious. There have been some layoffs in other departments. And, some people who decided to go in the office a few days have gotten CoVid. That is a good suggestion. I have actually been worried about the answer I would get or that I would get no real answer at all. the truth right now is scary I may try that this week. I feel a bit better, but how long can this go on? So many people have lost jobs and are sick or dying. Two people in my building have died. I think about lying in the hospital alone, no job, dying. I hope that is true. I miss my workmates. They are good friends. We all want to see each other again and have our jobs.

The worst days are when I keep the anxiety inside and don't talk much about how I feel.

I have struggled with anxiety in the past as well and it definitely helps to talk to people about it.

Self-disclosure

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47

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anxiety

job_crisis

CoVid has created a situation where I have to work from home all the time and I am unsure whether I will be employed next month

3

1

5

Hello... I am feeling quite anxious CoVid and my job leave me worried every day Yes, I have been forced to work from home and I am unsure if my job will still be around in a month I am worried I will lose my house if my job is eliminated It is making me anxious. There have been some layoffs in other departments. And, some people who decided to go in the office a few days have gotten CoVid. That is a good suggestion. I have actually been worried about the answer I would get or that I would get no real answer at all. the truth right now is scary I may try that this week. I feel a bit better, but how long can this go on? So many people have lost jobs and are sick or dying. Two people in my building have died. I think about lying in the hospital alone, no job, dying. I hope that is true. I miss my workmates. They are good friends. We all want to see each other again and have our jobs. The worst days are when I keep the anxiety inside and don't talk much about how I feel.

I really appreciate your assistance today. I feel better and will take some action this week. Thank you! Good bye!

You're very welcome! Feel free to chat if you need anything else!

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3

1

4

5

hello anybody home?

Hello! What would you like to talk about today?

Question

527

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Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home?

Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics

Can you tell me more about this anxiety?

Question

528

fear

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Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics

Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok?

I am here, it seems that you don't feel like you've studied enough. Is that correct?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok?

That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do?

It truly depends on the subject! There are online sites that provide free additional instruction

It truly depends on the subject! There are online sites that provide free additional instruction Can you tell me what the class is?

Providing Suggestions, Question

Providing Suggestions

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anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do?

Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those?

Khan Academy is absolutely fantastic! It is extremely helpful and accurate since it is run by educators.

Providing Suggestions

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anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those?

Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field?

No but I am a former math teacher and I would give them to my students!

Self-disclosure

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academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those? Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field?

Okay, that is great. That eases my anxiety a bit.

I am so glad! I know online school is stressful but I think you can do it.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those? Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field? Okay, that is great. That eases my anxiety a bit.

Thanks. I am learning as I go and I am believe I am getting better. Just got to get use to it.

I can recommend other resources if you'd like.

Providing Suggestions

534

happy

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9

anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those? Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field? Okay, that is great. That eases my anxiety a bit. Thanks. I am learning as I go and I am believe I am getting better. Just got to get use to it.

Thank you, just a couple more if you have them.

If this is an upper level math course, you can go to university sites! They always have lessons

Providing Suggestions

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anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those? Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field? Okay, that is great. That eases my anxiety a bit. Thanks. I am learning as I go and I am believe I am getting better. Just got to get use to it. Thank you, just a couple more if you have them.

Okay, I will check that out. Thanks for your help.

Of course! Did you have any other questions?

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anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those? Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field? Okay, that is great. That eases my anxiety a bit. Thanks. I am learning as I go and I am believe I am getting better. Just got to get use to it. Thank you, just a couple more if you have them. Okay, I will check that out. Thanks for your help.

No, that was all. Thank you for your assistance and providing me with some sources that can definitely help. Have a great day!!

Good luck studying! You're capable of doing well!

Affirmation and Reassurance

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happy

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anxiety

academic_pressure

Nervous about a test in the future because I do not know if I am learning well enough because of lack of in-person teaching.

3

1

4

5

hello anybody home? Hi, a little bit of anxiety of academics Well, I am nervous about a test I have coming up because I am wondering if I learned enough. ok? That and because of the pandemic, I have not been able to connect with the teacher enough to know if I am completing things correctly. What can I do? Its a math class. I have tried connecting with other students but many are just as confused as me, especially when it comes to showing the work part. You mentioned online sites, how accurate and helpful are those? Ok, I have to check that out as I have never heard of them. Did they have any reviews on how helpful they are in the math field? Okay, that is great. That eases my anxiety a bit. Thanks. I am learning as I go and I am believe I am getting better. Just got to get use to it. Thank you, just a couple more if you have them. Okay, I will check that out. Thanks for your help. No, that was all. Thank you for your assistance and providing me with some sources that can definitely help. Have a great day!!

Thanks again for the words of encouragement. Goodbye!

You can terminate the convo at any time!

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

5

2

5

I am doing just great now

Sorry that typed twice.

Others

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happy

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

5

2

5

I am doing just great now

How about you?

I'm enjoying hearing the rain on the roof! Can I encourage you in some way?

Question

541

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job_crisis

I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

5

2

5

I am doing just great now How about you?

Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit

You made plans for Christmas and a coworker quit? Are they asking you to work then?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

5

2

5

I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit

Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence

I can understand your frustration. You were a team player during Thanksgiving so saying you are not seems like he wants you to feel guilty.

I can understand your frustration. You were a team player during Thanksgiving so saying you are not seems like he wants you to feel guilty. Is this a company where you see yourself getting a promotion?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Question

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I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence

Besides the only reason I am taking that week off is because my kids are coming home. My son lives in Chicago and due to Covid I havent seen him all year and my daughter lives in Nashville and she used to come home often but also because of the pandemic , she has not been able to come as often as I would like

Family is important. I can imagine how excited you have been to see your children again.

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

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I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence Besides the only reason I am taking that week off is because my kids are coming home. My son lives in Chicago and due to Covid I havent seen him all year and my daughter lives in Nashville and she used to come home often but also because of the pandemic , she has not been able to come as often as I would like

No, I have not hopes of promotion, I have been 18 years with them and I have straight told them I just want to work through my retirement in the same position

I have personally had to learn how to not buy into false guilt. If you had plans, then they can ask some people to help out. However, I would consider maybe being flexible one day or two, but not out of guilt, but out of concern. I would personally pray about it. It's a hard situation.

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

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I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence Besides the only reason I am taking that week off is because my kids are coming home. My son lives in Chicago and due to Covid I havent seen him all year and my daughter lives in Nashville and she used to come home often but also because of the pandemic , she has not been able to come as often as I would like No, I have not hopes of promotion, I have been 18 years with them and I have straight told them I just want to work through my retirement in the same position

Thanks for your advice , I think it all will work out, I think the big guy aka as the owner will understand the situation

I'm sure it will all work out. I have been in that spot. You want to help, but not because they guilt you into it, that seems unfair.

I'm sure it will all work out. I have been in that spot. You want to help, but not because they guilt you into it, that seems unfair. Maybe they will offer double time? lol That would be nice.

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

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I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence Besides the only reason I am taking that week off is because my kids are coming home. My son lives in Chicago and due to Covid I havent seen him all year and my daughter lives in Nashville and she used to come home often but also because of the pandemic , she has not been able to come as often as I would like No, I have not hopes of promotion, I have been 18 years with them and I have straight told them I just want to work through my retirement in the same position Thanks for your advice , I think it all will work out, I think the big guy aka as the owner will understand the situation

Exactly, she has to understand that life goes beyond work and I have been a very loyal worker for more than 18 years so I think she is trying to fight a fight where she definitely can lose

I was just discussing with my husband how many people want to try and intimidate us lately. Seems so many are stressed out. I hope you have a Merry Christmas and really enjoy your visit with the kids.

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

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I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence Besides the only reason I am taking that week off is because my kids are coming home. My son lives in Chicago and due to Covid I havent seen him all year and my daughter lives in Nashville and she used to come home often but also because of the pandemic , she has not been able to come as often as I would like No, I have not hopes of promotion, I have been 18 years with them and I have straight told them I just want to work through my retirement in the same position Thanks for your advice , I think it all will work out, I think the big guy aka as the owner will understand the situation Exactly, she has to understand that life goes beyond work and I have been a very loyal worker for more than 18 years so I think she is trying to fight a fight where she definitely can lose

At this point , I dont need the extra money , what I need is time to spend with my family and thats exactly what I am going to do

I agree with you! It has been a tough year. Jobs come and go, but family is forever! :D

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I was scheduled to take my vacation after next week on Christmas week but due to some people quitting my boss suggested that I will have to work , I will not work because I already have plans but I am afraid that if I dont work she will cut my hours when I come back

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I am doing just great now How about you? Well , I already made my mind up, I am not working during Christmas week because I already have plans and also because I requested this week off back on May , so it is not my fault some coworkers quit Yes, my manager said I should work and show I am a team player? I said what? You took your vacation week on thanksgiving and we all worked hard to cover you, it I not my problem that two teammates quit and you have to work harder during my absence Besides the only reason I am taking that week off is because my kids are coming home. My son lives in Chicago and due to Covid I havent seen him all year and my daughter lives in Nashville and she used to come home often but also because of the pandemic , she has not been able to come as often as I would like No, I have not hopes of promotion, I have been 18 years with them and I have straight told them I just want to work through my retirement in the same position Thanks for your advice , I think it all will work out, I think the big guy aka as the owner will understand the situation Exactly, she has to understand that life goes beyond work and I have been a very loyal worker for more than 18 years so I think she is trying to fight a fight where she definitely can lose At this point , I dont need the extra money , what I need is time to spend with my family and thats exactly what I am going to do

Thank you and I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and well a better year than 2020, that last one I am sure will be a very easy one

Thanks! :D

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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Hi, how are you doing?

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi

oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness.

Oh that's not good. Has he been putting pressure on you not to get the vaccine?

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness.

yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically

I know it can be really frustrating. I 've had a friend like that before. Would cutting him out of your life make you more upset?

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically

i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him!

Or would you like to continue the relationship, but maybe not now?

Or would you like to continue the relationship, but maybe not now? I think that's something you need to think about. I mean he sounds kind of important to you that it's making you feel like this.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him!

i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends

I really understand how you feel. Honestly the best thing I did was cool off a little and think how I want to take this friendship forward.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends

you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted)

So I cut it off completely because she was starting to be destructive. She called me selfish because I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. We met up and talked about it, but she was out of hand and I quit the friendship.

So I cut it off completely because she was starting to be destructive. She called me selfish because I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. We met up and talked about it, but she was out of hand and I quit the friendship. But I think the best thing is to have some time alone and think about it.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted)

that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict

I know right.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict

i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward

Think about all the good and bad stuff that has happened between you two and see if it's worth keeping this friendship.

Think about all the good and bad stuff that has happened between you two and see if it's worth keeping this friendship. Don't really let your emotions take over. Think logically with a clear head.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward

hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay

I hope this helped. You guys may see each other and forget all about it. Laugh about it later.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay

i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right

I think it has been tearing people apart because of everyone's different beliefs.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right

covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long

I also think staying in the house too long has really made us bored and tired and kind of out of our minds lol.

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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.

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hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long

maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally

I hope so. I'm starting kind of a new life and I want to get on with it.

I hope so. I'm starting kind of a new life and I want to get on with it. I think we all want to get on with our lives

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