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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures

Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o

hahaha...Have you tslked to family and friends about the situation? How did they respond and what suggestions did they offer?

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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o

Well my mama suggested i just forget my ex and not be depressed. My grandpa suggested once i get divorced i should just move on. My brother asked if i wanted him to beat his ass XD lol So not much help honestly

Do you want the relationship to be over or you are truly done and want to move on?

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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o Well my mama suggested i just forget my ex and not be depressed. My grandpa suggested once i get divorced i should just move on. My brother asked if i wanted him to beat his ass XD lol So not much help honestly

I realize i am glad its over. I realize i did not love him like i thought i did. I'm sad that my babies had to suffer for me to realize this.

Although it's tough for the children, it's positive to hear that maybe it was for the best. The family seemed to echo your same feelings so it could be for the best.

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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o Well my mama suggested i just forget my ex and not be depressed. My grandpa suggested once i get divorced i should just move on. My brother asked if i wanted him to beat his ass XD lol So not much help honestly I realize i am glad its over. I realize i did not love him like i thought i did. I'm sad that my babies had to suffer for me to realize this.

I certainly hope so. I wonder sometimes. I hope i haven't ruined my kids lives by leaving their father.

Some children may act out if they have trouble expressing how they feel. I would suggest having regular talks with them and being transparent.

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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o Well my mama suggested i just forget my ex and not be depressed. My grandpa suggested once i get divorced i should just move on. My brother asked if i wanted him to beat his ass XD lol So not much help honestly I realize i am glad its over. I realize i did not love him like i thought i did. I'm sad that my babies had to suffer for me to realize this. I certainly hope so. I wonder sometimes. I hope i haven't ruined my kids lives by leaving their father.

Yes we had a little trouble with my 8 year old. He thought i and his grandma chased his daddy away. He acted out a lot till we set down with him and explained what happened.

Oh wow, well its good that an explanation was there for him to understand. As time goes on, it will become easier

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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o Well my mama suggested i just forget my ex and not be depressed. My grandpa suggested once i get divorced i should just move on. My brother asked if i wanted him to beat his ass XD lol So not much help honestly I realize i am glad its over. I realize i did not love him like i thought i did. I'm sad that my babies had to suffer for me to realize this. I certainly hope so. I wonder sometimes. I hope i haven't ruined my kids lives by leaving their father. Yes we had a little trouble with my 8 year old. He thought i and his grandma chased his daddy away. He acted out a lot till we set down with him and explained what happened.

I sure hope so. Thanks so much for your time. You really made me feel better about the situation. I actually enjoyed this hit

No problem, the pleasure was all mines!

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Hello? I'm okay i guess. How are you? My marriage recently fell apart and i had to relocate to NC with my children. That's going as well as you would think it is. I guess im okay, a little shaky and still find myself in tears from time to time. Honestly it is nothing new for me. I've suffered from depressions since i was a young teen Yes I go to the local mental health. I'm actually bipolar 1 which kinda makes my depression a little worse. I see a counselor twice a month. I still however have some trouble in between visits. I just can not afford to be seen more often. I read a lot and play rpg games to distract myself. My kids are a big help too. ill admit there are some days despite trying to distract myself i stuggle. Oh really what kinda video games to you escape into? I like RPG, romance, adventure, and simulation Oh i love some shooters. But VR scares me honestly. I heard it can cause seizures Yea god forbid playing a shooter in VR O.o Well my mama suggested i just forget my ex and not be depressed. My grandpa suggested once i get divorced i should just move on. My brother asked if i wanted him to beat his ass XD lol So not much help honestly I realize i am glad its over. I realize i did not love him like i thought i did. I'm sad that my babies had to suffer for me to realize this. I certainly hope so. I wonder sometimes. I hope i haven't ruined my kids lives by leaving their father. Yes we had a little trouble with my 8 year old. He thought i and his grandma chased his daddy away. He acted out a lot till we set down with him and explained what happened. I sure hope so. Thanks so much for your time. You really made me feel better about the situation. I actually enjoyed this hit

^-^ have a good day sugar!

You too, thanks!

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious.

Would you want to go further into whats causing this anxiety?

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious.

Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask.

Well, have you tried online platforms like MTurk?

Well, have you tried online platforms like MTurk? It can be bit tough to get into in the beginning, but with a decent amount of work and determination it might be able to help with your monetary problems.

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask.

That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some.

I hear you on that. I am disabled and the extra income helps a lot for my family. Unfortunately until the pandemic ends a part time job might not be in your best interest for now. Ebay flipping takes some time to get into as well but could help.

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some.

Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc.

Its actually very easy now. You can print out the slips at home and they tell you how much it will be. I have done it a few times, the last time was only a couple months a go.

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some. Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc.

Well, I will definitely have to check that out. It would serve two purposes : decluttering and making money. I think I got anxious last week when I had a tire go flat and took my car in to get it fixed. I found out I need all new tires and new brakes. Not easy on a fixed income. Plus I am widowed.

I am sorry for that. Yea having a nest egg is ideal, but i know how hard it can be. I think with the extra cash and space it may be a big help to those anxiety issues. Do you drive a lot as it is now?

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some. Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc. Well, I will definitely have to check that out. It would serve two purposes : decluttering and making money. I think I got anxious last week when I had a tire go flat and took my car in to get it fixed. I found out I need all new tires and new brakes. Not easy on a fixed income. Plus I am widowed.

I actually don't. Only to the grocery store, or to visit my daughter who lives about 20 minutes away.

Well at least you are not putting to much wear on them now. Have you checked with local governments for assistance? Even with things like medication?

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some. Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc. Well, I will definitely have to check that out. It would serve two purposes : decluttering and making money. I think I got anxious last week when I had a tire go flat and took my car in to get it fixed. I found out I need all new tires and new brakes. Not easy on a fixed income. Plus I am widowed. I actually don't. Only to the grocery store, or to visit my daughter who lives about 20 minutes away.

I am not on any medication, which I am so thankful of. I have not checked any programs for assistance. I'm not sure if I would even qualify. It wouldn't hurt to try, I guess.

Believe me never hurts to try. A penny you save on something else can be a penny that goes into your savings

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some. Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc. Well, I will definitely have to check that out. It would serve two purposes : decluttering and making money. I think I got anxious last week when I had a tire go flat and took my car in to get it fixed. I found out I need all new tires and new brakes. Not easy on a fixed income. Plus I am widowed. I actually don't. Only to the grocery store, or to visit my daughter who lives about 20 minutes away. I am not on any medication, which I am so thankful of. I have not checked any programs for assistance. I'm not sure if I would even qualify. It wouldn't hurt to try, I guess.

That is so true! I have been selling some items through my neighborhood online Marketplace and made $100 just this week. I have also started a change jar. Amazing how a bit here and there can add up.

Wow thats pretty good. Yeah it is. It seems you are very proactive about this which is really good.

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some. Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc. Well, I will definitely have to check that out. It would serve two purposes : decluttering and making money. I think I got anxious last week when I had a tire go flat and took my car in to get it fixed. I found out I need all new tires and new brakes. Not easy on a fixed income. Plus I am widowed. I actually don't. Only to the grocery store, or to visit my daughter who lives about 20 minutes away. I am not on any medication, which I am so thankful of. I have not checked any programs for assistance. I'm not sure if I would even qualify. It wouldn't hurt to try, I guess. That is so true! I have been selling some items through my neighborhood online Marketplace and made $100 just this week. I have also started a change jar. Amazing how a bit here and there can add up.

Yes. I am definitely one not to give up, which is a good thing! I appreciate your help. I feel more positive now.

I am very glad i could be of some help. I truly believe you have this handled.

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I am retired, but really need to go back to work to earn some extra money. My problem is that it is very difficult physically for me to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. In this time of COVID, I have no choice in the matter. It is causing me anxiety because I need the income.

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Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious. Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask. That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some. Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc. Well, I will definitely have to check that out. It would serve two purposes : decluttering and making money. I think I got anxious last week when I had a tire go flat and took my car in to get it fixed. I found out I need all new tires and new brakes. Not easy on a fixed income. Plus I am widowed. I actually don't. Only to the grocery store, or to visit my daughter who lives about 20 minutes away. I am not on any medication, which I am so thankful of. I have not checked any programs for assistance. I'm not sure if I would even qualify. It wouldn't hurt to try, I guess. That is so true! I have been selling some items through my neighborhood online Marketplace and made $100 just this week. I have also started a change jar. Amazing how a bit here and there can add up. Yes. I am definitely one not to give up, which is a good thing! I appreciate your help. I feel more positive now.

Thank you very much. I hope you have a blessed day.

You as well!

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I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.

Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.

Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them

I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them

I don't mind retaking it, really

Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really

yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family

Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family

i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally

Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally

yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed

I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed

what if they're disappointed

If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed what if they're disappointed

how do i even begin to start the conversation

Well, do you have any siblings that you are close to and that you could tell first?

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed what if they're disappointed how do i even begin to start the conversation

yeah i told my twin sister, actually

It is good to hear you have a twin. Are you very close?

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed what if they're disappointed how do i even begin to start the conversation yeah i told my twin sister, actually

definitely. we go to different schools but we live together in nyc

Well I think that it might be a very good idea if she could approach the rest of your family and maybe even your therapist on your behalf?

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Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed. Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them I don't mind retaking it, really yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed what if they're disappointed how do i even begin to start the conversation yeah i told my twin sister, actually definitely. we go to different schools but we live together in nyc

yha she's better at breaking bad news than i do... maybe i can ask her. i think i should tell my therapist myself though.

Well, your therapist is not, in my mind, as important as your family. But I think that both will understand!

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I'm okay I guess

You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?

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I'm okay I guess

I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately

So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately

Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing

I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing

I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.

It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.

She means so much to me and she's my only friend.

So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend.

More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want

Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want

She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.

Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?

Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on? She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.

She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would

I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.

I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you. Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her. She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would

I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.

I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her. She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.

I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.

You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has!

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her. She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that. I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.

Yes that's true. What do I say to her?

I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move

I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move I hope I have been able to help you a little!

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her. She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that. I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me. Yes that's true. What do I say to her?

The problem is we technically share a room. She does come in occasionally.

I know that you must feel that this could be a problem but I think you will be able to just ignore her. I am afraid I must leave for my next appointment now.

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I'm okay I guess I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say. She means so much to me and she's my only friend. More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her. She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that. I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me. Yes that's true. What do I say to her? The problem is we technically share a room. She does come in occasionally.

Okay! Thank you for the advice.

you're most welcome and enjoy the rest of your day!

you're most welcome and enjoy the rest of your day! (I think you have to quit your end ;))

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.

Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.

It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.

ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.

Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.

So you are scared that you might get in trouble?

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My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.

Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?

I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling

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My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?

Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.

you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.

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My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.

Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.

I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes

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My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is. Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.

I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?

I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling

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My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is. Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good. I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?

I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?

Did you see your director playing the game?

Did you see your director playing the game? I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days

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My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is. Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good. I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas? I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?

No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.

I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this

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I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is. Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good. I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas? I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too? No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.

Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do.

As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine

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fear

job_crisis

My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

4

3

5

I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is. Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good. I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas? I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too? No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand. Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do.

Thanks. Your help is appreciated.

do not let the situation get the best of you everything will be just fine

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fear

job_crisis

My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.

4

3

5

I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated. It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part. Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign. Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem? It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good. I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas? I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too? No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand. Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do. Your help is appreciated.

Thanks.

your welcome

your welcome Have a great day and stay safe

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi

Hello

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi

how are you?

I am good, how are you?

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academic_pressure

I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you?

I am feeling okay, a little upset.

What is making you upset tonight?

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset.

i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.

Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.

yes that is right

Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore. yes that is right

Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.

Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore. yes that is right Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.

No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.

I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here.

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore. yes that is right Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final. No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.

Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset.

I know it is extremely difficult to do that when you really want to keep your grades up, but I know you can get through this!

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anger

academic_pressure

I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore. yes that is right Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final. No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9. Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset.

I am going to try my best next semester so that this does not happen again.

You will do a great job! '

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore. yes that is right Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final. No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9. Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset. I am going to try my best next semester so that this does not happen again.

I really hope so, thank you

You are very welcome! If you ever need anything else, feel free to chat again!

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I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.

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hi how are you? I am feeling okay, a little upset. i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week. My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore. yes that is right Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final. No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9. Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset. I am going to try my best next semester so that this does not happen again. I really hope so, thank you

I feel okay now, thank you!

You're very welcome! I am glad I was able to help!

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I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.

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Hi!

Hello, how are you doing today?

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problems_with_friends

I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.

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Hi!

Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think?

It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend?

It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend? It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend?

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problems_with_friends

I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.

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Hi! Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think?

She is 44! Too old for all this nonsense. She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated. She is all to careless.

I see, it does sound like she is being negligent with her behavior and not respecting of you and your concern on this virus. When you say your friend does not believe in the virus, what is her stance on it?

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anxiety

problems_with_friends

I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.

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Hi! Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think? She is 44! Too old for all this nonsense. She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated. She is all to careless.

She thought it was faked for political reasons at first. Then when she found out it was real when it struck close to home, she is saying it is apart of population control. Honestly she is all over the place. I find her very dangerous to others right now. I don't think our friendship will survive this because I am willing to part ways for all of our safety. I hate that but will do it. \

I can relate with your friend, at the beginning I had similar thoughts. As my friends started working on those units and my members being hospitalized for it, I surrendered my political stance and dawned my mask. I have a friend who is just like your friend, they have politicized it and had first degree exposure and blew up when we had her sit out of our teen support group/youth group and church services for two weeks. She is in her 50's.

I can relate with your friend, at the beginning I had similar thoughts. As my friends started working on those units and my members being hospitalized for it, I surrendered my political stance and dawned my mask. I have a friend who is just like your friend, they have politicized it and had first degree exposure and blew up when we had her sit out of our teen support group/youth group and church services for two weeks. She is in her 50's. I can relate with your friend, at the beginning I had similar thoughts. As my friends started working on those units and my members being hospitalized for it, I surrendered my political stance and dawned my mask. I have a friend who is just like your friend, they have politicized it and had first degree exposure and blew up when we had her sit out of our teen support group/youth group and church services for two weeks. She is in her 50's. I think these situations cause us to take care of our selves first, like you are doing by wearing your mask and still loving your friend (maybe from afar). Your idea of separation is wise, unless you want to protect your relationship with her and let her be. I think these situations cause us to take care of our selves first, like you are doing by wearing your mask and still loving your friend (maybe from afar). Your idea of separation is wise, unless you want to protect your relationship with her and let her be.

Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions

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I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.

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Hi! Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think? She is 44! Too old for all this nonsense. She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated. She is all to careless. She thought it was faked for political reasons at first. Then when she found out it was real when it struck close to home, she is saying it is apart of population control. Honestly she is all over the place. I find her very dangerous to others right now. I don't think our friendship will survive this because I am willing to part ways for all of our safety. I hate that but will do it. \

Wow...that is deep and I believe you are right when you say these situations cause us to take care of ourselves first. I think that it just what I am going to do. After all this is over I will attempt to mend our relationship but for now I have to protect those I love. Thanks for the great advice. You were very helpful. I hope you have a great Christmas and new year. Stay safe!

It is my pleasure, I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing where you are at in this moment. It is not always easy, continue to find people who are willing to listen and be the change that we need. Have a wonderful Christmas and a safe New Year!

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problems_with_friends

I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.

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Hi! Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think? She is 44! Too old for all this nonsense. She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated. She is all to careless. She thought it was faked for political reasons at first. Then when she found out it was real when it struck close to home, she is saying it is apart of population control. Honestly she is all over the place. I find her very dangerous to others right now. I don't think our friendship will survive this because I am willing to part ways for all of our safety. I hate that but will do it. \ Wow...that is deep and I believe you are right when you say these situations cause us to take care of ourselves first. I think that it just what I am going to do. After all this is over I will attempt to mend our relationship but for now I have to protect those I love. Thanks for the great advice. You were very helpful. I hope you have a great Christmas and new year. Stay safe!

Hello oops

Hello, I am still here. Is there anything else that I can help you with today?

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself?

I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself?

well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things

Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things

well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation

Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation

a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death

Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death

I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy

So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy

well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?

I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?

Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy. thats even more saddening

I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money!

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy? Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy. thats even more saddening

Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.

People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them.

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy? Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy. thats even more saddening Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.

yea, it's hard, though, because sooner or later it comes out in almost everyone i meet. who knows. maybe even i do it and don't even know it. thats scary, you know at least your honest

Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware.

Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware. It has been really nice chatting to you and I hope that things go your way in 2021. You seem like good person :)

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feeling disgust as usual. yourself? well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish any they all care about superifical things well, you could say that. take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about. more people are probably dying of obesity eating themselves to death I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy? Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy. thats even more saddening Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station. yea, it's hard, though, because sooner or later it comes out in almost everyone i meet. who knows. maybe even i do it and don't even know it. thats scary, you know at least your honest

Thanks. Probably true. sometimes when i bring it up they'll just argue about it and defend themselves. i just try to move on but it is always there. ok. yea it is 15 minutes so bye bye good talking

you too :)

you too :) you need to finish from your end .. I can't :)

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to.

Of course! What have been down about?

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to.

I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone.

Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I know being alone in the holidays can be rough.

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone.

All I have to do is think about how alone I am.

Do you have any friends or people you can set up an online zoom call with?

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am.

I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work.

Also I feel that as well. Especially now these days its a bit hard to not think about being alone.

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work.

I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together.

Oh how about just texting or having periodic phone calls with friends?

Oh how about just texting or having periodic phone calls with friends? Yeah the pandemic has really stopped interactions. But that doesn't mean you can't stop talking to people completely!

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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3

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together.

I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone.

Oh I see I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you tried doing other activities to make your mind off it?

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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3

4

Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone.

I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander.

For me personally doing online gaming is a great way to interact with others and have fun.

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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3

4

Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone. I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander.

Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions?

What type of movie were you trying to watch? Maybe choose a happier movie than a sad one.

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone. I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander. Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions?

I was watching a comedy. It's a movie I usually like but I just couldn't keep my mind from wandering.

I would recommend games like Heartstone for stragedy, WoW for more role playing and if your into sci-fi, Cyberpunk cam out recently.

I would recommend games like Heartstone for stragedy, WoW for more role playing and if your into sci-fi, Cyberpunk cam out recently. Really any game that has multiplayer would be a good fit!

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone. I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander. Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions? I was watching a comedy. It's a movie I usually like but I just couldn't keep my mind from wandering.

I like strategy games. They really make you think which helps distract you from what you don't want to think about!

Oh sweet me too actually! I definitely recommend heartstone or any game that has a battle mode form

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone. I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander. Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions? I was watching a comedy. It's a movie I usually like but I just couldn't keep my mind from wandering. I like strategy games. They really make you think which helps distract you from what you don't want to think about!

Thanks! I'm going to look into playing the game! That might be just what I need to bring me out of this funk!

Also I know thats its currently the holidays so maybe take your mind off right now and ask your friends later if they can talk!

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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3

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Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone. I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander. Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions? I was watching a comedy. It's a movie I usually like but I just couldn't keep my mind from wandering. I like strategy games. They really make you think which helps distract you from what you don't want to think about! Thanks! I'm going to look into playing the game! That might be just what I need to bring me out of this funk!

Yes, I'm sure they'll have more free time after tomorrow!

I'm glad I can help! Is there anything else you would like to talk about>

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I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.

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3

4

Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to. I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone. All I have to do is think about how alone I am. I tried that but no one that I know is tech savvy that can make Zoom work. I just keep thinking about all the bad things happening in the world right now. If I had someone to spend time with I'm sure it would take my mind off of it but people aren't allowed to get together. I try that but everyone is busy with their families today. I don't have a family so I'm all alone. I tried watching a movie but my mind starts to wander. Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions? I was watching a comedy. It's a movie I usually like but I just couldn't keep my mind from wandering. I like strategy games. They really make you think which helps distract you from what you don't want to think about! Thanks! I'm going to look into playing the game! That might be just what I need to bring me out of this funk! Yes, I'm sure they'll have more free time after tomorrow!

No, I'm ready to look into the game! No, thank you! I'm ready to get going and look into playing the game you suggested!

Okay well I hope you have a great day!

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Hello

Hi, how are you feeling today?

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Hello

I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious.

okay, that is valid, do you have an idea what is causing the confusion?

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Hello I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious.

So I've been dating and my parents are aware. But recently after I said I want to go on a trip with my boyfriend, my parents have all sorts of opinions about it. And all their traditional beliefs that I did not know existed are now on the surface and they are kinda forcing me to follow it. For say they think "bad types of woman" go on trips with their boyfriends and I need to save myself. They have been guilt tripping me and I feel very confused.

Your feelings are valid and it is okay to feel confused in this situation considering you love your boyfriend and parents

Your feelings are valid and it is okay to feel confused in this situation considering you love your boyfriend and parents Have you tried discussing with your boyfriend to talk to your parents as a means of reassuring them? Or getting someone neutral that your parents trust to talk to them?

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Hello I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious. So I've been dating and my parents are aware. But recently after I said I want to go on a trip with my boyfriend, my parents have all sorts of opinions about it. And all their traditional beliefs that I did not know existed are now on the surface and they are kinda forcing me to follow it. For say they think "bad types of woman" go on trips with their boyfriends and I need to save myself. They have been guilt tripping me and I feel very confused.

I have. It's been a long stressful month of discussion. The problem is I don't share their beliefs, and I haven't been really "saving myself". I'm been living away from them for collage quite a while and I've been basically doing stuff that if they found out they would be very upset about. But I didn't think it bothers them because they never shared any of this. And they said if I go on this trip I'm disrespecting them and the entire family. But his parents are totally cool and don't seem to mind.

I get how difficult and upsetting this situation is to you, i have been in a similar situation, however, in my case i took charge of my life, though they are my parents i did what i felt is good for me

I get how difficult and upsetting this situation is to you, i have been in a similar situation, however, in my case i took charge of my life, though they are my parents i did what i felt is good for me Before i continue, do you mind me asking how old you are?

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Hello I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious. So I've been dating and my parents are aware. But recently after I said I want to go on a trip with my boyfriend, my parents have all sorts of opinions about it. And all their traditional beliefs that I did not know existed are now on the surface and they are kinda forcing me to follow it. For say they think "bad types of woman" go on trips with their boyfriends and I need to save myself. They have been guilt tripping me and I feel very confused. I have. It's been a long stressful month of discussion. The problem is I don't share their beliefs, and I haven't been really "saving myself". I'm been living away from them for collage quite a while and I've been basically doing stuff that if they found out they would be very upset about. But I didn't think it bothers them because they never shared any of this. And they said if I go on this trip I'm disrespecting them and the entire family. But his parents are totally cool and don't seem to mind.

I'm 26 And I see what you're saying. It's really hard breaking free because they always monitored me my entire life. I never had a voice for myself. They basically bullied and forced me to do what they wanted. BTW if you didn't guess I'm their favorite child.

Okay, you are old enough to be away from your parents, i am going to suggest you sitting with them down and having a heart to heart discussion with them

Okay, you are old enough to be away from your parents, i am going to suggest you sitting with them down and having a heart to heart discussion with them Let them know the consequences of them forcing you, your feelings towards it and how unhappy you are with them restricting you

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Hello I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious. So I've been dating and my parents are aware. But recently after I said I want to go on a trip with my boyfriend, my parents have all sorts of opinions about it. And all their traditional beliefs that I did not know existed are now on the surface and they are kinda forcing me to follow it. For say they think "bad types of woman" go on trips with their boyfriends and I need to save myself. They have been guilt tripping me and I feel very confused. I have. It's been a long stressful month of discussion. The problem is I don't share their beliefs, and I haven't been really "saving myself". I'm been living away from them for collage quite a while and I've been basically doing stuff that if they found out they would be very upset about. But I didn't think it bothers them because they never shared any of this. And they said if I go on this trip I'm disrespecting them and the entire family. But his parents are totally cool and don't seem to mind. I'm 26 And I see what you're saying. It's really hard breaking free because they always monitored me my entire life. I never had a voice for myself. They basically bullied and forced me to do what they wanted. BTW if you didn't guess I'm their favorite child.

Should I tell them everything I did that goes against what they believe? So they know that I don't share their beliefs ?

No, i think that should be personal to you, i would not suggest you hurting or making them see you as a disappointment

No, i think that should be personal to you, i would not suggest you hurting or making them see you as a disappointment I am sure you will be fine after discussing with them, they will come around

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Hello I'm feeling a bit confused and anxious. So I've been dating and my parents are aware. But recently after I said I want to go on a trip with my boyfriend, my parents have all sorts of opinions about it. And all their traditional beliefs that I did not know existed are now on the surface and they are kinda forcing me to follow it. For say they think "bad types of woman" go on trips with their boyfriends and I need to save myself. They have been guilt tripping me and I feel very confused. I have. It's been a long stressful month of discussion. The problem is I don't share their beliefs, and I haven't been really "saving myself". I'm been living away from them for collage quite a while and I've been basically doing stuff that if they found out they would be very upset about. But I didn't think it bothers them because they never shared any of this. And they said if I go on this trip I'm disrespecting them and the entire family. But his parents are totally cool and don't seem to mind. I'm 26 And I see what you're saying. It's really hard breaking free because they always monitored me my entire life. I never had a voice for myself. They basically bullied and forced me to do what they wanted. BTW if you didn't guess I'm their favorite child. Should I tell them everything I did that goes against what they believe? So they know that I don't share their beliefs ?

I guess worst case I won't talk to them for a while : ) Thank you , that helped.

They might be sad and upset now but they will get over it definitely

They might be sad and upset now but they will get over it definitely You are welcome

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