text: Hi Paul! This is really misguided. let's use an example to educate you. For instance, has every straight woman that you've ever interacted with been unable to concentrate on the task at hand because she's so distracted by your sex appeal? I'm guessing the answer is probably no. The same applies to gay men. Not all of them will be attracted to you. Likely, most of them won't because you comment stuff like this. Thanks!!