text: You don't live in your bedroom. You live in a world of friends,family colleagues and strangers. Coming out isn't about sex, it's about being yourself. My relationship with my husband isn't restricted to our bedroom. We go out for dinner, see friends, work, and our relationship is the centre of our lives. Why can't gay people have that. Coming out shouldn't be necessary, but sure as hell they shouldn't be forced to hide in a bedroom